Relationship is connection between 2 or more people
Relationship is connection when two or more person associates together in a physical or emotional way. To maintain a healthy relationship one must overshadow fights, jealousy, arguments, and tears. Time and trust are required for any relationship to grow. Relationship is like a plant. It does not grow in a day or so. It needs time, trust, and love and understanding to nurture just as a plant needs air, water, soil to grow. A relation like husband and wife is like a friend and they share a strong bond between them. You need to put in continues effort to have a Better Relationship.
Most relationships fail due to undue expectations and that leads to problems. You can easily solve all kind of problems by discussing it with your partner. There are many issues faced by the married couple:
- Adjustment issues: Adjustment is a difficult thing in the initial days of marriage. But with the passage of time this gets solved.
- Respect: Respect in a relationship is of high value. Both should equally respect each other for better relationship.
- Fading of love: It sets in a relationship when spark between the couple is missing. So passion should always remain between married couples.
- Sustenance of relationship: Love is the key of the relationship. To sustain a relationship husband and wife both should more often use three words “I love you”.
Smooth and better Relationship
To have a smooth, healthy and better relationship between the couple compatibility is most important. Two persons living under same roof, if not compatible and always nagging cannot carry that relationship further. Fights and tussle are part of the relationship and maturity says to overlook it. Husband and wife relationship is more like two sides of the same coin. In today’s era marriages are not taken seriously and lead to divorce. A better or healthy relationship with the spouse is of utmost importance.Relationship withers and dies away like flowers if proper nourishment is not given. To have a smooth relationship between husband and wife and always want it to bloom we need to take care of few things.
- Proper Time should be given to each other properly.
- Acceptance is very important aspect of relationship.
- Timely appreciation and love should be given.
- Sometimes over caring attitude towards each other brings sweetness in a relationship.
- Constant realization of physical affection.
- Giving support to each other in every way.
- By giving compliments to each other very often.
By following all these simple ways relationship will enhance the life of a couple and make it even more beautiful.
In case you set goals for a better relationship, it makes love grow. Both strive hard to achieve the goals, which make them focused towards each other. Both husband and wife need to achieve certain goals to make their relation better.
- Communication goals
- Love goals
- Compromises goals
- Commitment goals
- Household chores goals
- Physical intimacy goals
You can archive these goals by focusing on each other. Once you are able to archive these goals in your relationship all you have is love and happiness. A little drift from the goal becomes painful for the married life.
I personally believe that love alone doesn’t keep the relationship strong. It is the looks that also help in keeping the spark alive in the relationship. And this is very true in both men and women.
Yes, in the initial years of marriage looks play a role but then later your connectivity, emotions matter. Beautiful things are appealing to eyes and easily connect with it. Love and beauty both go parallel for any relationship to grow. But some way down the line the fact is “looks are transitory, it fades away with time, what lives with us is our emotions and love for each other”.
For all the couples out there I just want to say that ‘Love is a blessing’ so love your partners, respect their feelings and you will be the happiest person.